Monday, March 25, 2013

Trepidation

If you are a girl like me, you've done the diet before.  I was on my first diet at 5 y.o., joined WW at 10, and my mother put me on a "doctor" regulated diet with amphetamines and 800 calories a day when I was just 13.  The last was probably the one that totally screwed my metabolism for the rest of my teenage years.  I lost 40 pounds one summer from swimming and a boyfriend that made me anxious enough that I couldn't digest my food properly.  Another year my grandmother paid a $350 fee so that I could try another diet called "Metabolic."  Then there was Jenny Craig, which helped me loose enough weight that my body allowed me to get pregnant.

Here I am, 31 years since my first diet.  I gained it back every time.  I changed few habits, still crave chocolate, ice cream, Thai food, you name it, no matter how bad I know it is for me. So, I had to make a choice.  See, we've been trying to get pregnant for about 2 years now, and my weight keeps creeping up.  And I really want a baby.  Well, there are days that I think one boy is enough, but others... well, my heart aches.

My chiropractor's office has been stocked with Ideal Protein products for a couple of years, and I was tempted from the first day.  The protocol is a lot like the "metabolic" plan I did in my twenties, so I know it will work.  But will I keep it off?  Will they teach me how?

Sometimes I overthink things, and this is no exception. But I have good reason, right?  You read a brief history of my temporary weight loss successes, and I don't like to fail.  I teach, and I preach failure is just another stepping stone to success, but c'mon - at some point we have our limits.  But I wanted something more than avoiding failure...

With trepidation I went to an info session.  I stuck around and talked to my chiropractor - although I think she could sense my trepidation, she has no idea how deep this fear goes.  I went home, thought about it some more, talked about it with my husband, and finally decided to take yet another chance and be brave.  Braver than I've been before and just hope that with the work, deprivation, and hope, I can do it.